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Question

Hey. I'm only 19. I've been having sex with only one partner. We're wondering if it's normal to ejaculate really fast as in 1-2-3. I hate it because it takes away all the fun. Thanks hope to hear from you.


Answer

It is very common for young men to have difficulty lasting very long during sexual intercourse. There are things which can be done about it, but since you have all but stated that you are having sex with someone to whom you are not married, I won't be going into such details. These are the types of issues I cover with young men just prior to marriage so that their wives can enjoy sex in marriage. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4).

I would like you to read two articles before you jump into bed with your partner again:

Why Sex Outside of Marriage is Wrong
Marriage's Glue

When you've repented of your sin and are ready to marry a woman for the rest of your life, then come see me and I'll explain why it is happening and how you can give your soon-to-be wife greater pleasure.