The Boys' Growing Up in the Lord

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Question

I love a very sweet, cute, beautiful girl very much. She also told me that she loves me too. But I think I am not at all perfect for her because she is smarter and more beautiful than me. I am too skinny and not a handsome boy. What I can do now? I love her too much, so I want to be perfect for her. What should I do now?


Answer

While guys tend to place emphasis on looks, girls are more interested a guy's personality. So what if you don't think your body matches your idea of a handsome man? She is interested in you, not some buff guy who is focused on his appearance. Instead of getting up tight about your inadequacies, focus instead of being friends.