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Good day to you. I've this question which would help make things easier.

Is it true that man can get aroused through their anus? Is it normal that as something touches the anus or the area around it an arousal could occur? Is it really normal, or is it completely perverted? If it is normal, then does this mean that they are homosexual or heterosexual? If not, is it right to be practiced or biblically wrong?

Can I ask you what is sodomy? Is it a same gender sex act in a prohibited way only, or is it the act of men being stimulated through the anus? Is it right for me to have anal stimulation?

Thank you for your help.


Answer

A man can be aroused in a variety of different ways. Arousal only means the body believes it needs to prepare for sex, but the body, especially when you are young, is often wrong. Being aroused has nothing to do with whether a person has sex with a woman or a man or both. It is merely an instinctive reaction of the body. For instance, a guy has about four erections each night while sleeping, yet the fact that it happens has no bearing on who a guy chooses to have sex with.

Private areas of the body can and do cause arousal because we are not normally touched in those areas. Touches in those area imply intimacy and that allow will trigger a reaction. It isn't just the backside that triggers such a reaction.

Some of your internal sexual organs, such as the prostate gland and the seminal vesicles are next to your rectum. Homosexuals use this to stimulate each other by inserting fingers or their penis into the rectum through the anus. The pressure causes a strong sexual reaction. However, it carries a lot of danger as well since the anus and rectum are not designed to have things put into them. They can and do tear, which can lead to severe infections since fecal matter is not clean.

Sodomy is another word for homosexuality. It has broaden over time to mean any sexual acts that do not include intercourse -- the acts that a homosexual is restricted to since vaginal intercourse is not available to them. As it is currently defined, a male and female having oral or anal sex is still considered an act of sodomy.

All acts of sex with another person is forbidden before marriage. Some acts, such as anal sex, should not be done, even after marriage because they carry a high possibility of causing harm to another person.

Someone sexually stimulating you through your anus is preforming an act of homosexuality with you and that is forbidden. "For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due" (Romans 1:26-27).