The Boys' Growing Up in the Lord

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Question

How do I masturbate? I have not ejaculated yet, but when it comes to it I wish to know how I do it.


Answer

It is hard to believe, but masturbation is not something that needs to be taught. Your body knows how to do it instinctively and when the time is right, it will happen. Different guys do it in different ways -- I suspect more because of how they first learned to ejaculate. I don't tell people how to do it or even that it needs to be done. The thing I focus on is not letting it lure you into sin, such as pornography, and to make sure young men don't beat themselves up thinking that ejaculating is somehow sinful by itself.