The Boys' Growing Up in the Lord

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Hi!

I hope you can help me. I am 25 years old and I have been actively masturbating since my girlfriend is not with me. We're an ocean apart. I masturbated 2 to 3 times every day until I observed that I ejaculated a urine like semen. It's a yellowish fluid and not sticky. But prior to that I could see a green like fluid in my briefs. It started when I had sex with another girl. Can you help me to explain what this is? Is this normal?

Thank you.


Answer

A green or yellow tinted ejaculation usually means you have an infection in your prostate gland. You probably picked up a sexually transmitted disease from the girl you had sex with. I strongly recommend that you see a doctor about it immediately.

This is one of the reasons why God condemns sex with people you are not married to. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4). God doesn't make arbitrary rules. Having sex with people you are not married to can lead to diseases. "Wounds and dishonor he will get, and his reproach will not be wiped away" (Proverbs 6:33).

In talking about sex, Solomon made a parallel to drinking water:

"Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, and not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love. For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman, and be embraced in the arms of a seductress?" (Proverbs 5:15-20).

If you were thirsty, you wouldn't take your glass and fill it with sewer water. The very thought of drinking such should make you shutter and cringe. Who knows where that water has been and what is in it?

For the same reason, it should make you cringe to put your penis into a girl you are not married to. How knows how many other guys have had their penis in her? Who knows what diseases she may have picked up from other people?

See: A Thing Which Ought Not to be Done.