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Question

My girlfriend and I met yesterday. She did a blow job on me. I wiped away my semen with my fingers. Then I pushed my fingers into her vagina. So can she get pregnant from what I did?

Please help me. I am very afraid.


Answer

What you and your girlfriend did is called fornication. Oral sex is a form of fornication because you and your girlfriend are not married. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4).

It is possible to get a girl pregnant from oral sex. What you did makes it possible. Whether she is pregnant is question of chance. Your sperm has to survive the journey up her vagina. They have to be present within six days before she releases an egg. Then fertilization has to take place. The only way to know if she is pregnant is to wait and see if she misses her next menstrual period.  If she doesn't have one, there are home tests that can be used to find out if she is pregnant.

Of course, the sensible thing is that if you don't want to get a girl pregnant, you don't get involved in sex with a girl. Sex naturally leads to pregnancies. But more importantly, if you want to get to heaven, keep your pants on until you get married.