Last updated on October 7, 2020
Question:
My girlfriend and I had sex 20 days ago for three days, but I never left my sperm inside her. But it’s been one month since her last period, and she has not had a period yet. She feels she might be pregnant. So please tell me she won’t get pregnant and some ways you can avoid pregnancy after sex.
Answer:
The only way to avoid pregnancy is to not have sex. Every act of sex contains a risk of pregnancy, regardless of the precautions taken. To stop pregnancy after it has started is to kill the child you have conceived, and you can’t fix a sin with another sin.
The mistake you made was thinking you could avoid pregnancy by not ejaculating in her. A man drips pre-ejaculate fluid when he is aroused. That fluid can contain sperm. Thus, you have been putting sperm into your girlfriend each time you put your penis in her. While pre-ejaculate fluid doesn’t contain a lot of sperm, it only takes one reaching the egg at the right time to cause the egg to be fertilized.