Question:
Hi,
I am curious to know the difference between male edging and female edging. Do females use edging to get away with sexual urges? It seems like females do not bother about sexual fluids being produced inside their body.
I will be really grateful with your feedback.
Thank you.
Answer:
“Edging” refers to masturbating but stopping before orgasm. Boys mostly masturbate because they have built up semen in their seminal vesicles and need to ejaculate. However, since masturbation feels good, some boys chase after the pleasure. One way is by trying to draw out the time spent in masturbation by stopping before ejaculation occurs, waiting until the body calms down, and then starting again. When a boy chases after pleasure, it becomes a pathway for temptation to sin. See: Is pleasure a sin?
Girls do not produce fluids that are stored in glands. Since there is no storage, release is unnecessary when the storage gets full. While masturbation feels good to a girl, there is no physical need for release that is driving it as there is in boys. Instead, a girl’s sexual desire is tied to her monthly cycle. She experiences the strongest sexual desire around the time an egg is released. It then fades on its own as the cycle continues. A boy’s sexual desire rises as his seminal vesicles get full and decreases after ejaculation. Thus, boys have the drive to ejaculate periodically that girls do not experience. Of course, to ejaculate, a boy has to experience orgasm. Since a girl has nothing to release, orgasms feel good but serve no physical requirement.