Last updated on April 3, 2022
Question:
I think I had my first wet dream, but I am not sure. I woke up while having semen leakage, but maybe not an ejaculation. It wasn’t a lot like a lot of people described, but it was a little bit more than last time. I had two different semen leakages that same night.
Answer:
When someone describes what is coming out of his penis as a “leakage,” my inclination is that he is seeing pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum). Pre-ejaculatory fluid is clear. Semen is whitish in color. Pre-ejaculatory fluid drips out of the penis because there are no muscles pushing it out. Semen is ejaculated by muscles. Ejaculations tend to happen once and then a recuperation period is needed by the body. Pre-ejaculatory fluid can drip for as long as you are aroused.
If what you saw was whitish fluid, then what could be happening is that your body is producing semen now, but the muscles for ejaculation haven’t yet developed fully. Thus, during the night you are having strong erections, which open the pathway to the ejaculatory duct. Semen is spilling out because of the backlog. Your Cowper glands are functional and are producing pre-ejaculatory fluid. This fluid mixes with the semen and then flows out of your penis.
My guess is that you are very close to having an ejaculation.
Question:
Mine was white in color. It was not pre-cum, but it wasn’t a lot. Also, when will ejaculations and all these semen-releasing things ever stop? I am a bit worried that wet dreams and ejaculations will hurt and wake me up and disturb my sleep and a lot of other things. How can I prevent this? I don’t think about sex or anything like that. Could it also be true that I actually was able to ejaculate in stage 2, but because I never thought about sex and stuff that the semen process slowed down and I finally have these semen-releasing things going on in stage 3?
Answer:
So basically you are producing semen, which means the seminal vesicles are working, but other parts of your reproductive system aren’t ready yet. Semen is leaking out at night when you have erections and it is dripping out of your penis. This will continue until you are able to ejaculate.
Ejaculations don’t hurt. When it does happen, you will feel intense pleasure and if it happens during a wet dream, you’ll fall into a deeper sleep after ejaculating. This is because hormones are released that cause your body to relax. Therefore, it is nothing to worry about.
Often, the first ejaculation is not accompanied by any sexual thoughts or acts. It is usually a spontaneous ejaculation caused by the seminal vesicles being too full. When it does happen, you won’t miss it, though it is possible for it to happen in a wet dream and you sleep through it. However, you will find the result in the morning.
Once you start ejaculating, it will continue basically for the rest of your life. It won’t be an everyday occurrence, but it will happen periodically.