Question:
Hello,
I would like to ask a question. I personally don’t have the faith to masturbate even if I can achieve it without porn or lust in my heart. Is there a certain kind of underwear that helps you have a wet dream?
The other night my sexual drive was very high so I decided I would sleep naked. I couldn’t fall asleep at all. In fact, as soon as I took my underwear off I got an erection that wouldn’t go away. So I laid there wide awake on my side with an erection. Eventually, my penis was so sensitive that I ejaculated in my bed by laying there still. Why am I so sensitive and how can I have a wet dream?
Answer:
As I have noted many times in the past, not every guy is able to have a wet dream. A wet dream is a form of sleepwalking where a guy masturbates in his sleep. Some guys just don’t sleepwalk. As soon as they start to move, they wake up. Since guys need to ejaculate when their seminal vesicles get full, many guys discover they can stimulate themselves and get relief, which is called masturbation.
Usually, a guy who has learned to relieve himself through masturbation has more difficulties trying to switch to wet dreams; however, there have been some guys who have managed to switch.
You need to consider the transition period as a time when you are training your body to respond automatically to your need to ejaculate. You’ve managed to do the first step, which is to wait until the pressure builds up so intensely that your body ejaculates anyway. The next step is to repeat the process. Go back to wearing what you normally do for sleeping. When you realize the need is very strong, take off your underwear, even if it is in the middle of the night. You aren’t likely going to get a lot of sleep the first few times, but over time you are going to find that you progress further toward ejaculation before you wake up. Go ahead and allow yourself to finish off what was started. Somewhere along the line, you are going to find that you slept through the whole process.
One of the things that can help with the process is training yourself to recognize when you are needed to ejaculate. Sleeping nude is basically a signal to yourself to do what needs to be done to have a wet dream. A similar thing can be done by wearing a very loose pair of pajamas or boxers only on those days that you know you need to ejaculate. Loose is needed because you need room for your erection. Something different is needed to signal the need by a change in your sensations.